When you book a psychic or mediumship reading, you’re doing more than just setting aside an hour — you’re saying “yes” to an energetic exchange between worlds. It’s an investment of your time, your money, and your spirit’s readiness to receive guidance. On my end, it’s also an investment of focus, training, and heart. When we both show up fully, that’s when the magic happens.
1. Come With an Open Heart and Mind đź’ś
Curiosity is welcome. Skepticism is human. But when doubt becomes a wall, it can block the flow of the very messages you came to receive. Spirit works with vibration, and openness raises that frequency. You don’t have to “believe” in everything — just allow the possibility that something meaningful might unfold.
2. Release the Need for Control 🌀
It’s natural to arrive with specific expectations: a certain loved one, a precise piece of evidence, or an exact answer. But spirit often has their own agenda, bringing forward the messages you need rather than what you want. Trust that the session will unfold in divine order — and often, that’s where the most profound healing happens.
3. Be an Active Participant, Not a Passive Observer 🌟
Mediumship and intuitive work are not performances — they’re collaborations. Your energy, responses, and willingness to engage help me go deeper. If something resonates, say so. If something doesn’t make sense yet, hold space for it — many messages reveal their meaning later.
4. Prepare Your Energy Before You Arrive 🌙
Take a few moments before your reading to ground and center yourself. Breathe deeply. Set an intention for clarity, healing, or connection. You might even speak aloud: “I am open and ready to receive guidance that serves my highest good.” That simple act creates a clear, receptive field for the messages to flow through.
5. Remember: This Is a Sacred Partnership 🤝
I often say, “Spirit meets us where we are.” That means the more you bring your authentic self — your hopes, your grief, your curiosity — the more space there is for Spirit to meet you halfway. Together, we create a bridge between realms, and that bridge is strongest when built on mutual trust and respect.
đźš« What Not to Do During a Reading (And Why It Matters)
While most people come into a reading with good intentions, certain behaviors can unintentionally block the flow of energy. Here’s what to avoid if you want the most powerful, accurate, and healing experience possible:
❌ Don’t “Test” the Reader
Coming into a session with a “prove it to me” mindset closes the door before Spirit even knocks. Mediumship is not about passing a test — it’s about communication between realms. The more defensive or combative the energy, the harder it is for subtle messages to come through clearly.
❌ Don’t Withhold All Information on Purpose
It’s a myth that psychics or mediums “shouldn’t ask questions” or “should know everything.” We’re translators for Spirit, not mind readers. Offering honest feedback — even just saying “yes,” “no,” or “I’m not sure yet” — keeps the energy flowing and allows us to refine the connection.
❌ Don’t Arrive Emotionally Closed Off
If you’re numb, distracted, or deeply resistant to feeling, the session will reflect that. Spirit respects your free will — if you’re not ready to receive, they won’t force it. It’s okay to feel guarded, but try to soften the walls just enough to let the light in.
❌ Don’t Expect a Scripted Show
Real readings don’t always look like TV. Sometimes they’re subtle. Sometimes they’re layered. Sometimes they bring through what you need to hear, even if it’s not what you expected. Releasing rigid expectations allows Spirit to speak more authentically
✨ Final Thoughts: A psychic or mediumship reading isn’t just information — it’s transformation. It’s an invitation to see your path with new clarity, to reconnect with love beyond the veil, and to awaken the wisdom already within you. When you show up with openness and intention, you’re not just attending a reading — you’re co-creating a sacred conversation with the universe itself.
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